When cuddling becomes pleasurable
A handshake, a pat on the shoulder, or straight into bed—there’s hardly anything in between. With this cuddle party in Berlin, Barcelona, and Vienna, we’re bridging that gap. Discover just how diverse touch can be!


Featured Events

April 20, 2024
Kinky Cuddling Barcelona
Kinky Cuddling is going on tour!
On April 20, 2024, Barcelona will be all snuggled up!

April 21, 2024
Playfight Barcelona
Playfight is going on tour!
The fight will take place in Barcelona on April 21, 2024!
The somewhat different cuddle party
We will cuddle without restraint, give in to our longing for closeness and security, share tender embraces, and feel the warmth of our bodies pressed tightly together. We will become one for a time, coming together to enjoy sensual touch, deep relaxation, and a sense of security.
We wouldn’t be Insomnia if we didn’t go a little further: There’s a fine line between harmless cuddling and deliberate touching, so there will be a second part of the party where everyone can decide whether they want to join in or leave it at deliberate cuddling.
Why is cuddling so great?
Cuddling has many benefits – here are just a few of them.
Bathing in the cuddle hormone oxytocin
Cuddling and physical touch releases oxytocin, a hormone associated with positive emotions, trust and social bonding. Oxytocin can also increase feelings of closeness and intimacy.
Cuddling reduces stress and relaxes
Low stress levels and a sense of relaxation can increase sexual desire and arousal. The first part of the cuddle party is designed to relieve stress and promote relaxation. This creates the right atmosphere for the second part.
Increased sensitivity
By slowing down while cuddling and focusing on physical touch, the senses become more attuned. Touch and a sense of well-being become more intense.
Exploration of your own sexuality
The cuddle party provides a safe environment to explore your own sexual sensations and preferences at your own pace. Experiencing physical intimacy without the pressure of having to become more sexual can help to build a deeper connection to your own body and sexuality.
Mindfulness and self-confidence
Mindfulness practices help foster respectful interactions with one another. This can help increase awareness of one's own body and needs and promote a sense of self-confidence.
Improved mood
Physical touch and hugging release various "happiness hormones" that promote positive emotions and social bonding. This lifts your mood and triggers a sense of well-being.
Cuddling or playfighting?
Whether it’s slow, sensual cuddling or playful, wild roughhousing – both are fun and happy.

Kinky Cuddling
The ultimate cuddle party
This fun cuddle party takes place every month in the basement of Insomnia. The cuddle party starts off casually, but becomes more physical and sensual as the evening goes on. It’s not uncommon for it to end in an exciting orgy.

Playfight
Where sensuality meets sparring
Are you drawn to the art of wrestling, or do you simply crave the thrill of playful combat? Imagine a setting where the line between wrestling and sensuality blurs into an electrifying experience.
What guests say
The party is over, but your opinion lives on! This is the place to share your experiences and thoughts, because your feedback is the heartbeat of our party community.
Tina Hofmann
"The best place to give lots and lots of people a big hug—and so many other wonderful things 😊. Go for it, everyone!"
Lotte Hahnemann
"What a touching, sensual evening 🙏. Very professionally guided and lovingly led the group through the night. Many thanks to you Ona."
Carsten
"After a long break for me, it was another wonderful time with super lovely guests. Thank you so much! Ona, please keep up the good work so that these cuddle parties can continue for a long time to come!"
Denise
"I am still totally flashed by all the impressions. Thank you for this exhilarating and wonderful experience."
Prices*
€75
for couples
€70
for men
€29
for ladies
€49
for TV/TS
* Prices are valid for Berlin. The price in Vienna is €49 and €39 for members. In Barcelona, the price is €50 per person and €90 for couples.
About me
Ona
As a certified Sexological Bodywork practitioner and Matrix Inform trainer, I see many challenges in the intimate lives of many people. That is why I have a keen interest in the healthy sexuality of those around me.
In sensitive coaching sessions for women and couples and loving, intensive evenings, I use my skills and knowledge to contribute to the healing and reawakening of a joyful love life.
Party favorites to go
Relive the best moments of the party again and again – with our recommended products for the home!

Splash Blanket
waterproof sex blanket
With the Splash Blanket™, you always have the perfect solution to hand when things get a little damp. This innovative blanket not only offers ultimate comfort, but also absorbs liquids effortlessly so that you can relax even in wet situations. Your Splash Blanket™ is your reliable companion for every occasion. Immerse yourself in a world of relaxation without having to worry about spilled liquids. You know what I mean…

Needle roller
tingling fascia stimulation
Experience sensual moments with the BLACKROLL® needle roller – ideal for a relaxing cuddle party. The fine, needle-like tips gently stimulate your skin, promote blood circulation and ensure a deep sense of well-being. Let yourself and your loved ones be pampered by this unique touch and enjoy pure relaxation.
Frequently asked questions
Was ist eine kinky Kuschelparty?
Kuschelpartys sind in der Regel nur auf Kuscheln ausgelegt und bieten keinen Raum für sexuelle Möglichkeiten. Da beim Kuscheln, Berührung und Körperkontakt aber neben dem Bad im Oxytocin auch noch Lust auf mehr regen kann, bieten wir einen zweiten Teil auf der Party, bei dem auch Raum für Erotik ist.
Was ist kinky an der Kuschelparty?
Kinky ist was du daraus machst. Erlaubt ist worauf alle Beteiligten Lust haben.
Gibt es einen Dresscode?
Bring dir bequeme, saubere, möglichst weiche Kleidung mit, in der es sich gut kuscheln lässt, wenn es noch ein bisschen nett aussieht, wäre das von Vorteil – Jeans und Unterhosen sind keine Kuschelkleidung!
Wenn Du Lust hast, kannst Du Dir für den zweiten Teil ein sexy Outfit mitbringen und Dich zu gegebener Zeit umziehen.
Kann ich alleine kommen?
Du kannst gerne alleine oder mit Partner kommen. Sowohl alleine als auch mit Partner ist es eine spannende Erfahrung.
Wann ist die nächste Party?
Die nächsten Termine findest du in unserem Kalender.
Contact us
Do you have any questions? We’d love to hear from you.